when communication breaks down
You've explained something clearly. At least, you thought you did. But the message didn't land the way you intended, and now both of you are frustrated.
Sounds familiar?
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An employee misunderstands what you thought were clear expectations.
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A coworker wants more detail when you're ready to move forward.
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Someone interprets your directness as criticism.
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A family member hears something entirely different from what you meant.
Often, both people believe they're communicating perfectly well. But the way we naturally communicate, and the way others receive our messages, can be very different.
Understanding why that happens is the first step toward communicating more effectively.